8 Ways To Make Him Like All-Of-You (More Than Just Your LOOKS)!

By- Shreya Sharma

Physical attractions are instant whereas emotional connection takes time. A guy would be attracted to you physically with just the way you walk, how your hands feel, how your voice sounds and how you smile and smell, but for emotional connection, it is sometimes just a magic bond that sticks you together and makes you compatible enough for one another. It takes the time to develop. A guy may look you for your looks instantly and approach you then, but he will like all-of-you once you have that emotional bond. Here are 8 ways to make him like all-of-you (more than just your looks).

1. Self-confidence

It is not just your looks that charm people, but also your personality and how you are confident about yourself. It is about how you listen and respond to people, how you understand things and interpret it even better. It about how you present yourself with a sense of confidence.

2. Patience

You need to be patient. Guys like girls who willingly listen to their point without being judgmental and jumping to conclusions.  They want someone who understands who they are and where they are coming from. Be patient with a guy and he will eventually like you for who you are.

3. Being positive

Being positive ensures that the relationship will survive. If you have positive perception, people are likely to be attracted towards you emotionally. Positive vibes sure attract people. They will know that you can stay calm even in the toughest of time and be the ray of hope.

4. Be in present

To be emotionally attractive, acknowledge the past and learn from the mistakes, do not live in those disappointments and negative experiences. We all have a past, it is better to understand why it is left behind and how to work together to make a combined future better.

5. Being a great listener

Everyone wants someone who is willing to listen to them and their stories, someone who has a genuine interest in them. If you will genuinely listen to them, ask questions and show your active participation in the conversation, they will be attracted towards you emotionally. They will find you to be their confidant. Allow him to finish his point, without judging him or jumping to a conclusion.

6. Keeping his secrets

A person shares his secrets with someone, only when they find them trustworthy and knows that they can keep it with themselves. Not with everyone, we do share our secrets. Do not bring up the secrets in the heat of the arguments. Blurting out the secrets shows that you cannot be trusted emotionally.

7. Honest communication

Honesty can lead you a long way. It is better to be open and honest in a relationship rather than lying. True, lies hurt a lot, but imagine what if your man gets to know about your lies later on? The situation will be more disturbing then. Tell him the things you like and dislike honestly and he will appreciate you for this. Men do not read mind and intentions, so it better you speak up.

8. Appreciate his efforts without expecting perfection

Emotionally attractive people leave their egos behind when in a relationship. They realize that we all have idiosyncrasies that make us different and in fact can sometimes be annoying. Leave your ego and appreciate his gestures and efforts without making unrealistic expectations.