15 Things *Almost* Every Girl Wants To Ask In First Rishta Meeting With Him!
By- Shreya Sharma
Arrange marriages are no less than a dare thrown at you by your parents and you have no other option than to perform. You do not know the person, you have hardly met once and now you have to decide to spend the rest of your life with this stranger. But we know our parents want the best for us and they will not settle for anything less than the best for us. But still there are many questions in your mind that you want to ask but you do not because they might be too personal and rude. Here are 15 things almost every girl wants to ask in first Rishta meeting with him.
How much do you earn?
We want to know about the kind of life he will be able to give us. Will we work to meet the ends or because we want to do it? We want to settle for the best only.
Why are you still single?
If the guy is much older than us, we will obviously think why he has not got married yet.
How many girls have you dated?
We are curious to know about the exact number.
Have you had any serious affair?
If he has a count, we need to know if he had any serious affair just to know if he is playboy kind or husband material.
Are you medically fit?
This is one important thing to know about a stranger before giving him a nod. Asking your potential groom about HIV test is nothing to feel embarrassed about.
How many girls are your friends?
We want to know about his female friends. We need to be prepared if all his friends are female. Plus we will know if he is just a womanizer or just the best guy friend to girls.
Do you smoke and drink?
Drinking occasionally is fine. But no girl wants a man who is a chain smoker or addicted to alcohol.
Will you give importance to my work?
We all want our man to encourage us, support us to achieve our goals and help us with our work life whenever he can. They should give importance to our career as much as they give to their career and allow us to have a bank balance of our own.
Are you religious?
You would want to know if he is god fearing. Whether he exists or not, believing that god is always by our side makes us a better person and fills us with positivity.
Will you split the household chores with me?
You are not getting married to become a house help. Since you both will be working, you should split the household chores and responsibilities post marriage.
Have you ever cheated?
We have heard ‘once a cheater, always a cheater’. He probably will not brag about it, so you will have to ask it on your own.
Are you willing to stay in a nuclear family?
While there will be girls who want a nuclear family setup, there are some girls who want to live in a joint family setup.
How many kids do you want?
You might not ask this but this will be sure in your head. Plus, you should ask this because it is important to have the same perspective on this topic.
Will you be okay with birth control?
Before starting a family you need to know each other, travel together, reach your work goals and do many other things together. So, you should ask about this.
Will you relocate if I get a good job opportunity?
Because if it was the other way round, you would definitely do it for your husband!