You have been crushing on this guy for a while now, but you cannot figure him out. You are confused if he likes you, or someone else. Most of the times, it feels super amazing and exciting to have a crush on a guy. But if they like someone else, it can become confusing and upsetting. Here are 15 signs that your crush likes some other girl.
Like on his pictures are from the girls you do not know
When your crush posts a picture or status on social media, the majority of the likes are from other girls. You often see their names, but he has never talked with you about those girls. Notice if there is one girl who likes all his posts and pictures and if you feel something is going on between them, just ask him.
You heard some rumors about it
When you like someone, you talk about them to know more about them, and most of the time you get to hear that he is dating or talking with some other girl, but they are not sure of it. If these rumors are from the people who barely know him, you can ignore them. But if they are from the people who are close to him, you should probably believe them because they will not lie.
He pays attention to another girl
You see your crush talking to one girl most of the times. And if your notice that he barely notices you when he is around that girl, then this is the most obvious sign that he likes some other girl. If he likes you, he will not spend his time with other girl ignoring you.
He always talks about another girl
You spend time with your crush, you laugh and have fun together, and your conversations are interesting. But now when you hang out together, he talks about the same girl over and over again. There are chances that he is interested in her because else he will not bring up her stories again and again.
He does not seem interested in you
Earlier your crush used to enjoy your stories and jokes. He used to put in efforts to listen while you talk and he would question you about your stories. But now he does not seem interested and often makes excuses when you plan to hang out. He does not respond properly to your stories now and this is one clear sign that he is not interested in you.
He gets touchy feely with other girls
If your crush gets physical with another girl, then it is obvious he does not like you. He might pick her up or try to arm wrestle with her, puts his hand on her back while walking or holds her hand. The gestures might be small but it is clear indicator that your crush is interested in another girl.
You catch him checking out other girls
You often notice him checking out other girls. Looking at an attractive girl once or twice does not necessarily mean that they want to date her, but if he constantly looks at the same girl it means he likes her.
He does not make eye contact with you
Eye contact is a way to show your interest in someone. If your crush is so disinterested in you to even make eye contact with you or avoids meeting your gaze, it is unlikely that he is interested in you. When you talk with him, he is often looking around the room and this is an obvious sign that he is not interested.
He says no to you but yes to another girl
You wish to be with your crush often and thus invite him to your parties, but he always makes up an excuse to avoid your plans. But if you notice that he is willing to come to any place if the plan includes one particular girl, this is one clear sign that he is not interested in you.
He is always on phone
Whenever you are together, he is busy with his phone. You do not know what he is doing because he never tells you about it. He is always on his phone when he is with you, but still, takes hours to text you back or answer your call and you do not even what he is doing with his phone in your presence, then probably he is interested in some other girl.
His efforts with his appearance
When you hang out with your crush, he is casually dressed in his jeans and t-shirt and did not even make efforts with his hair and appearance. You thought he feels relaxed with you. But if you notice him putting his efforts with his appearance when he has to go out with some other girl, this is probably because he is interested in her and not you.
He acts nervous around another girl
When you hang out with your crush, he is normally relaxed and even acts grossly at times. You may feel that this is a good sign, but no, in the honeymoon phase of a relationship people try to make a good impression on other people rather than acting gross. If your crush gets flustered and nervous around another girl, then he could be trying to impress her rather than you.
Your instinct tells you that he likes someone else
You know deep down in your heart, you doubt that he likes someone else. You do not know the exact reason, but your gut tells you that he is not interested in you. You feel confused and unhappy. You do not know what actually has changed, but your instinct tells you that he has feelings for someone else.
He never likes your post and pictures on social media
If your man is on your Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter but he never likes your selfies, but he is more than happy to like your statuses and funny posts. This is a clear indicator that he is not interested in you. A like on a picture is one easy way to show your interest in the person. If you put your efforts to look good but he still does not seem interested, he probably is not interested. If your crush likes another girl’s pictures but not yours, then he is not interested in you.
Your friends do not think he likes you
You like your crush, but your friends are not impressed by him. They think you can do better and deserve someone better. You sense their dislike about your crush. You might be blinded by your feelings, but not your friends. They have the unbiased outsider perspective, they will be realistic about your crush’s feelings because they want the best for you.