The world is full of nice and manipulative guys that it is hard to identify which guy is genuinely nice and which are just pretending to be one. You might have found a nice guy and he seems to care a lot about you, but you still keep on asking yourself ‘Does he genuinely care about me?’ rather than taking him on the face value. Here are 16 signs he cares about you and he genuinely does.
He listens to you
There are guys who pretend to listen while their mind is wandering all over while talking with you. When a guy really listens to you, he will offer you a realistic solution to your problem. This shows that he genuinely cares about you and wants to make things better for you.
Asks for advice
Guys usually do not seek advice from anyone. If a guy asks for advice from you when he is going through a professional or personal problem, this shows that he genuinely cares about what you think and say.
Introduces you to the people important to him
If a guy genuinely cares for you, he is going to introduce you to his friends and family. He wants you to get along with the people who are important to him. He wants you to be a part of his life for a long time.
Fix things after fight
Fights and arguments are a part of any relationship, but the way you deal with it is what is important. If your guy talks about the argument and tries to come to a solution, then he cares for you and your relationship.
He listens to you carefully and brings it up in future conversation when it is related. This shows that he cares for you because he remembers everything you ever told to him because it is important to you.
He uses “WE” instead of “I”
When he talks about you two with the third person, he uses “WE” instead of you or I. It shows that he cared for you.
There for you always
Your guy notices your mood and cancels his plans to be with you when you are having a bad day. He cares about you and your well-being.
He understands you
When a guy cares for you, he will make the effort to understand your point of view. Even if he does not agree with your thoughts, he will not dismiss them. He will sit and talk with you to understand what you are thinking and saying.
He is genuinely excited
If he is genuinely happy and excited to see you and celebrate your happiness, then it shows that he cares about you.
He respects you
When a guy cares for you, he will respect you, your values, ideas, thoughts, boundaries, morals, family, friends, and work. He will never make you feel bad about yourself.
He encourages you
When a guy cares for you, he will encourage and support you through every up and down phase in your life. He will cheer you, encourage you and assure you that you can do it. He will never tell you to quit even if he knows that your dreams are unattainable.
Treat your friends and family with respect
When your guy cares about you, he tries his best to get along with your family and friends. He will try to make a good impression on them.
He is honest
He knows the value of honesty in a relationship and does not lie to you even if it gets him in trouble. He knows trust and honesty leads to a healthy relationship.
He is generous in bedroom
If your guy genuinely cares for you and wants to make your relationship work, then he will put in the effort to make you happy and pleased in the bedroom as well. If he works hard for you in the bedroom too, you’ll know he’s a keeper!
He gives you space and time
He cares for you when he understands the importance of alone time and does not throw fits when you want to have a night out with your friends. He too needs his alone time, so he understands the value of spending time apart.
He trusts you to share his secrets, weakness, and vulnerabilities with you. This shows that he genuinely cares for you.