13 Things He Really Wants You To Try In Bed With Him!
By- Shreya Sharma
Your man may not come to you asking for the things he wants you to do in bed, but that does not mean he does not have his wishes when it comes to being in bed. He might be happiest with the fact that you are having sex with him but this does not stop him from thinking of a few things that he wants you to at least try in bed on him. Here are 13 things he really wants you to try in bed with him.
You might be worried about what your partner will think about your scars or your cellulite or if you have hair or if you think your body is not model-like or whatever is your thought. But men rarely notice your flaws and they will only be aware of it if you try to cover them up. Man wants to see your body moving in bed with no clothes in full light. Allow your man to see you in full light.
It is a big turn on for men to watch a confident woman who connects to her sexuality. Give your man a show; watching you being pleased, he will understand how to touch you and this will be a valuable reason.
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Guys love getting blow jobs. And they love it when you initiate on your own, without them asking or begging for one. So, go on and surprise your man.
Moans and groans
Men want to know when you are enjoying yourself. Tell your man what you like and command them to do certain things. Your ‘oohs’ and ‘ahhs’ will help him know what works better for you. It will renew his excitement.
Focus on his sensitive areas
You should focus on the tip of his penis. Handle his penis with care but a little touch here and there will leave him with various sensations.
Go little slow
Men want to feel everything and they want to have their time to explore. If you are giving him oral, take him in and out slowly so that he can sense your mouth touching him. Go slow, in the beginning, to tease him and later you can change the pace.
Get frisky out of bed
Men want to have sex at different places. He does not want to fall into a routine when it comes to sex. Get wild in your fireplace, couch, kitchen, shower or any place.
Role playing is effective as it does not let you get bored of having sex with the same person. Enter into a fantasy mode and it will increase your dopamine level, arousal hormone and sense of attachment.
Do the taboo things
There are many men who want to try anal sex. The vulnerability of this act makes it something that men really want to experience. But out of fear, they do not ask you for this. If you are ready to experiment with anal, you got to initiate the conversation.
You may fall into a sex routine; like same time, same place and same position. Your man may not make a move to change things, but he wants to have the power to switch up the pattern and take total control. A little BDSM will spice up your sex life. Use his silk ties, let him bind your hands together and let him take the control.
Touch unexpected zones
Besides the penis, there are many erogenous zones on a man’s body. Do not forget to touch his inner tights, torso, behind his knees or his temples.
Work on his fantasy
Ask your partner what his ultimate sexy wish is, and then indulge exactly that. Whether he’s been dying to see you in a certain type of lingerie or have you dominate him, you’ll only know if you ask. Assuming you’re in a healthy, honest relationship, he’ll be happy to open up.
Foreplay is hot and can get you in the right mood. Send him sexy texts to excite him or slowly strip your clothes off. Do not rush to the main action and have some hot foreplay session.