Love or Career? – How to Make the Right Choice!

By- Ekta Jain

Love or Career- two sides of a coin. The most discussed topic in our girl’s group. We all have gone through or going through this stage where we have to take a stand for one. It’s not that easy task to choose one over another love of life v/s career to shape life. We had made or make decisions and regret later for choosing wrong at the wrong time. Unless one side wins by a mile or you have no regrets, whatever the decision, you’ll always be bitter unless you’re wholeheartedly convinced with the decision you have made.

Love or Career.?

True love is hard to find in today’s’ world. It’s easy to fall in love with someone but it’s hard to stick to it with loyalty and selfless love and understanding.

Career is something we dreamed of !! A better career can give you the better life. We can find love later but career won’t wait for us. you know you’re climbing ladders of success and about to reach to your ambition. You will never be happy if you are not happy with your career.


True love stands by your side!

If you have found your true love, he will support your every dream, understands you, stands by your side through thick and thin. He will encourage you to achieve your goals and love to see you succeed. He will never change you or ask you to choose between him and your career. you don’t have to worry about separating for a few years or having to spend less time with each other. Instead of worrying about love or career, think of ways to make it work better.


You’ll always be ambitious!

Guys love ambitious and hard-working girls. A girl who is independent and knows how to achieve goals. You will be always happy in your life if you are doing what you wanted to do or dreamt of. You will be proud of yourself for what you are. You will be able to stand to opposite sex and will find yourself more clearly.

          When it comes to deciding between love and career, it is confusing one and it’s hard to understand, we’ll help you understand what really matters to you and how you should deal with it. After all, After all, every relationship is special and all of us have our own needs and desires to achieve their goals.


When you choose to LOVE!

If you give more importance to love over career, you should note following points-

  1. Would you be happy after killing your career by your own hands?
  2. Would you forgive yourself for letting go career opportunities? You might regret later for this in your life Opportunity never knocks door twice.
  3. Bitterness in the relationship. After a certain period of time, you may be with your love but bitterness may pop up in your relationship. Bitterness kills the relationship. There might be argument and fights over your career and slowly you will distant yourself from your partner, you will find yourself annoying and frustrated for being depended on your guy for everything and this will kill your happiness and start blaming your love.


If you choose WORK!

We are blessed to born in a place where women too have equal rights to live their dreams and achieve their goals and aim. Very girls in India are lucky and fortunate enough to shape their life as they want to and live their own dreams. Choosing work and building careers not only make us independent women but also helps us to find ourselves in a better way.

  1. would get the same partner as loving as caring in future? You may decide to move on with your career but you may lose the true love of your life. Find true love is a miracle.
  2. Will you regret if you choose career over love?

Don’t look back for the lost love or think about it. Since you have decided to move on its better to focus on your career and stand to your decisions.

  1.  Can you move on and forget all your past memories? Sometimes you have second thoughts over your decision you have made. Can you stop regretting it?

There’s really no point in ending a relationship for a career and then spending several months regretting your decision and ruining your career at the same time.


Choosing Love and Work!

There are girls who can run both at the same time. They don’t need to choose one. If both of you love each other you will always find a way to solve your problems and figure out something to be together.

The only hard part comes in when both of you have recently started dating each other. The relationship would be new to you both and you guys want to spend quality time. And on the other hand, you have your career and promotions which may lead you t the ladder of success and you find it difficult to maintain both at the same time.


Making the right CHOICE!

It isn’t easy to meet the right partner and find your true soul mate, so if you genuinely think you’ve met the one, then opt out the career opportunity.

But if you’re not very happy in your relationship and think you deserve something better, go ahead and choose your career. But whatever your decision may be, stick with it and never look back. Choose wisely.

  “Life is a box of mysteries-coincidences and circumstances have its own way of playing your life out.”

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