11 Ways You Can Be A *Great* Long Distance Girlfriend Ever!
By- Shreya Sharma
Long distance relationships are hard, you cannot hold your man’s hand, and you cannot cuddle when you want and less of sex. All you can do is talk over the phone, make Skype calls or texting. But long distance relationship can be great because it boosts your communication and understanding making your bond stronger. If you both are serious about each other, then you need not worry. Here are 11 ways you can be a great long distance girlfriend ever.
Sexts are always welcome
He will entertain your sexts even when he is in a meeting. He is always ready for sexting. You can send him the image of same body part every single day, and he will still be happy and save it.
You both need to be free at same time
Figure out a time in advance that suits best for both of you and talks with each other. Do not wait when you are free, manage your time else you may go weeks without conversation.
If he cannot make a Skype date, do not make him feel bad
The way you want to stay in touch with him, the same way he too wants the same. But if he once in a while cannot manage to make a Skype date to be with his friends or family, then you should not make him feel guilty. You should understand if he is tired or has other important plans.
Do activities together
Play online games, or board games on Skype call, watch a movie together or try to cook the same dinner. You can even a romantic candle light dinner while being on Skype call.
Plan your visits in advance
Plan your visits in way advance as it will fill excitement into your relationship. You will feel better when you have something to look forward to. Even if you have to wait for a few months, you will know that you will soon get to meet each other.
When you are together, offer to split the bill
Only one person cannot visit the other one always even if they can easily travel. Split the expenses whenever he travels to you. Make sure travelling is not a stress for one of you only.
Enjoy your free time
Appreciate the distance, and manage time for yourself. Read the book you wanted to read, hit the gym or sleep all day long. You can have your ‘me time’ even while being in a relationship.
It is ok to have no plans when you meet
Sometimes, it is better to stay in, cuddling and having lots of sex. No, you are not wasting your time. You are bonding greatly.
Maintain trust and honesty
Since you are not together in the same space, you need to trust your partner that they are not messing behind your back. Patience, trust, and honesty are important to nurture your long distance relationship.
Long distance sex
Talk dirty to each other, have phone sex or Skype sex. Even if you feel weird about it, it’ll keep you two focused on each other. Plus, you’re building up a lot of sexual tension for when you finally see each other again.
No constant texts
It is ok to send jokes, or cute messages or picture, but do not have all the conversation over texts that you end up with no topic for the phone call. Too much texting is not good. Keep calls as the real form of communication.