Romantic comedies may make you feel that falling in love will lead you to a perfect, fairy tale life. All those rom coms make us wonder when we will find the Raj of our life who will make sure that we are happy and make our life filled with fun and excitement. Or you may even find movies that show either a nagging husband or unhappy wife. Well, love is not just about this, there are the lot about love that no one tells you. Here are 10 things no one tells you about falling in love.
Love does not happen overnight
You cannot form a successful relationship over-night as building a relationship requires a lot of efforts. To love your partner, you have to learn about their passions, hear about their passion and see their flaws. If you love him after all of this, then your feelings are genuine.
You will fight about dumb things
Arguments are a part of the relationship. It is impossible to stay with someone and see them every day and still not get annoyed by some things. Frequent fights should not mean you should break up; you should be able to compromise and move past your fight.
You will be scared
When you meet the right person, love is little less terrifying. It is the big deal to open up your heart to someone. You have a risk of being cheated, that they might disrespect you, and break up with you. Love has some highs and lows as well.
You can give and get bad habits
He will make you a better person, but you might even catch a few of his bad habits. And he can even catch a few of your bad habits too.
It takes more than love to make a relationship work
Love is not enough to make your relationship work. If you want kids and your man does not, then you cannot stay together. If you do not have same future goals, one of you will not be happy in the relationship no matter how madly and crazily you love each other.
You can love and dislike them at the same time
A couple can love each other, even though they do not like each other anymore. Sometimes, little things can make you call off your relationship but that does not end your love. It is no longer strong enough to maintain a healthy relationship.
You have to compromise
When you are in the relationship, you do things you do not enjoy and this is just a way to show how much you love your partner.
People will assume your relationship may fail
Adults might make fun of you when you claim you are in love. Most of your friends and family might assume that your relationship will fail even if they do not say it loud. But their doubts will not let you down.
You may lose other relationships
When you love someone, they become your priority and spend all of your time together. And this may lead to spending less time with your friends and family members.
You can have crush over someone else
You may love someone like crazy, but that does not mean you cannot look at the good looking guys in the street. You will still feel the blood pumping for other guys.