12 Reasons Your First Year Of Marriage Is More Important For You!
By- Shreya Sharma
Marriage is one beautiful, exciting, adventurous phase of your life. You will be sharing you home, bed, life, and space with someone. You will be excited and will have some expectations and that is all worth it because your life is going to go on a roller coaster ride. We all have heard of how the first year of marriage is the most decisive time of your relationship and how it is important and hard to survive through that. Here are 12 reasons your first year of marriage is more important for you.
You get to know each other
You might know each other for the longest of time, but there are things you know about each other only when you stay together and share your life. You get to know about their likes, dislikes, the way they eat, the sleep and every other thing.
You share everything
You share your home, space, cupboard, towel, car, chocolates and every small thing that matters a lot to you.
You get to know each other’s strengths and weaknesses
When we are dating, we generally show our strong points. But when you get married, you are sure your partner will not judge you and you get to know about each other’s strengths and weaknesses and you learn how to deal with them.
You fight but act as a team
A healthy marriage has fights and these fights bring you closer. You will realize that you may fight a lot but when you are in some serious challenging situation, you two become a team to find a solution for that.
You what makes your partner happy and sad
You spend most of the time with your partner and thus you get to know about their likes and dislikes, and good and bad tastes.
You learn to deal with crises
You may want to deal with a difficult situation whereas your man may want to ignore it. You learn the way you both deal with crises and the next time you are prepared to deal with it.
You are aware of each other’s fighting pattern
In the first year of marriage, you will get to know the pattern and the things that make your partner angry. You either try to change your behavior or your partner’s behavior. You also learn to deal with these fights.
You choose your words before speaking
You know sometimes in anger you say things that you really do not mean to say but those are enough to create a distance between you two. You learn to choose your words wisely.
This is the foundation of your lifetime happiness
When you are married, you have millions of happy moments, romantic times, sorrows, fights, family get-together, and many ups and downs. These all lay your foundation to your happy marriage.
You understand the meaning of starting your family
Before marriage, family means, you, your parents, your siblings and your relatives. After marriage, you realize that family means you, your husband, your children and how to keep everyone happy and together.
You realize you are lucky and you made the right choice
Once you start living together, making your home the way you want it to be, discovering new facts about each other, learning new things from each other and realizing how content and happy you feel every day, makes you feel blessed to have got married to this wonderful person.
You have a best friend for life
He is your 3 AM partner, your partner-in-crime, and your best buddy. The company of your best friend is always fun filled and stress-free.