#Cuddling : 10 Secret Tips You HAVE To Know!

By- Shreya Sharma

Cuddling is not just a thing that girls love, even guys love it too. There are a lot of physical and psychological benefits of cuddling the man you love. It helps you bond with your partner, it reduces your heart rate and blood pressure and it will lead to a better communication between you and your man. If your guy is always in for cuddling, it shows that he is too much in love with you that he does not mind showing his soft sides to you. Not only this, you can cuddle up a guy who is so not into cuddling with these secret tips. Here are cuddling secret tips you have to know.

1. Do not pressure him to hug you

Pressuring him will not work for you because it is like forcing him to do something that he does not want to. Even if he does, he will not be into it and even you will not enjoy it. Be patient and do not get angry if he does not immediately cuddle.

2. Do not call it cuddling

The moment you will talk about cuddling, he will freak out. Some may not like the term “cuddling” but some may get nervous hearing it. While snuggling up, do not talk about it. You can ask him to relax with you, sit with you or anything that will serve your purpose of sitting together.

3. Position yourself next to him

Be sneaky in your approach. Start by sitting next to him. And if you think he might cuddle up, sit an inch closer to him. Wait for the time he is relaxed or too much occupied with the movie. Slowly sit down next to him when he is relaxing.

4. Move closer to him slowly

Go close to him, so that he pulls you in. Be close enough so your thighs brush against each other. Do it slowly so that he does not notice you getting close. Act like you are trying to get more comfortable.

5. Find excuses to initiate contact

6. Make him urge to hold you close

You can use this cold weather as an excuse, when you say, you are feeling to cold, this hints your guy and prompt him to wrap his arms around him or put his jacket over his shoulder. Use your surroundings to get creative. Make him want to hold you close.

7. Lean into hug

When he has already wrapped his arms around you, lean into him and relax in that position. Let him know that you are comfortable with his holding you so tightly. Be happy and comfortable and show this with your body language else he will feel that you do not want it. Rest your head on his chest or shoulder.

8. Watch his reactions

When a guy pulls you close into his embrace, watch his reactions. Some may feel relieved holding you in his arms while others may feel nervous and insecure thinking that maybe you will not like it. Snuggle up to him so that he understands that you are enjoying it. And if he seems to be enjoying himself, you can relax even further.

9. Let him further the cuddle

When you start cuddling, you begin with leaning against him when he wraps his arms around your shoulder. This is the easiest cuddling and it is most easy to part ways in this if one of you is feeling uncomfortable. Do not further the cuddle on your own until you are sure that he is enjoying it else it will make him nervous. Let him make the next move to ensure that even he is comfortable.

10. Make him used to cuddling

Do this every time you see him and get him used to cuddling. Go with these steps every time you see him, so that he becomes normal with cuddling and it comes naturally to him. This way you will grow to a point that he will always initiate cuddling as and when he sees you.