15 Awkward Questions Men Wish They Could Ask Girls!
By- Shreya Sharma
It is surprising how more open both men and women are nowadays which allows men to ask questions which were once considered to be offensive. Asking such questions not only helps in knowing how well or bad a person is, but also helps in forming a good connection, building more trust between two people. Though, boys are always interested in talking about sex but there are few things which always linger in guy’s mind and are better left unsaid as they are afraid of girl’s reaction on such questions. They never know what women are thinking, and this is why they don’t see any point in asking such questions, unless it is absolutely necessary. Here are 15 awkward questions men wishes to ask girls.
- How many guys have you been with?
This is the first question which hits a guy’s mind and also one of the most difficult questions to ask from guy’s point of view as this can ruin the relationship in the first go. Most men usually take this to judge the girl’s character, while some men find it promising because of the amount of experience a woman has, can speak a lot about her.
- Are you open to anal sex, a threesome or a little bit of bondage?
No matter how kinky the activity is, it’s not surprising that any one of these topics will run through a guy’s mind at some point. Some women take offense discussing something so sexual in a new relationship this is why it is not always easy to ask such questions as men think this could project a bad image of him in her girl’s mind.
- Is my penis the biggest you’ve ever had?
This is one question which comes in every guy’s mind after having sex for this first time in relationship as this is related to his masculinity and also we have always heard that the longer the size, the better is your sex life. This is why a guy always wants to know as it helps him know if he has been able to satisfy his girl.
- What’s the wildest thing you’ve ever done?
Some men aren’t afraid to ask this, but it’s not a necessary question to ask on the first date. Sometimes, they want to ask this because it allows them to gauge what level of adventure you’re willing to tolerate while you’re seeing each other. Men won’t ask this outright because they’re afraid they might come off as sleazy or disrespectful if they do.
- Are you going to sleep with me tonight?
This is not something which comes in every guy’s mind but yes, some men do want to take a chance of asking this question on the first date as who knows what the girl is thinking and if the reply will be in their favour or not. They don’t ask this question if they respect women but this does not mean that they do not dream about it.
- Are you on your period?
A lot of time, mood swings are connected with periods. A man may want to ask this, so that they can do the damage control by pampering you and buying you chocolates or going out of town to so that he do not end up pissing you off more. They may not ask you this with the fear of pissing you off even more.
- Do you want to do it even on your period?
Girl’s period is one such topic which guys lack knowledge in. Though they keep on discussing about it amongst their friends but no one is exactly sure about what they know is true or not. Only thing guys are aware about is that they cannot ask the girl for sex if she is in her periods. There are ways to have period sex like having it in shower. They are usually afraid to ask this because they’re assuming that a girl might think that it’s disgusting or she’s just too hormonal to even entertain the idea.
- Do you like my underwear?
This was not amongst the common questions long time ago. But nowadays, even lingerie and underwear play an important role during foreplay; this is why it is always important to ask whether your partner likes what you’re wearing and finds it hot or not. It’s hard to ask this to a woman because it’s equivalent of a fashion-related question, which men may often avoid and also the setting for this question to be asked is when you’re both practically naked.
- Can we split the bill?
Yes, this is true. Though paying bill by a guy is considered to be obvious on dates but yes they want to split the bills equally when they go out with you. Asking this makes them look cheap and may even lower their value as a provider. They just think women should take initiative on their own.
- Am I better in bed than your ex?
This is something which is related to masculinity of guy. This is why he always wants to know if he is doing everything right in bed or there is something more which he can do to please you more in bed. But there is always a risk in asking this as he himself is raising question on his ability.
- Do you like my ass?
Never have we heard a guy or even heard of a story of a guy discussing his ass. Surprisingly, men wonder whether women like their ass or not. It’s the equivalent of a woman wondering whether a guy likes her breasts. Guys are not confident enough to ask such questions as this can become a big joke and embarrassing for a guy, if girl start making fun of this.
- Do you have an STD?
This is something which should not be asked immediately as this can turn out to be most embarrassing question for anyone. This can act like an accusation and a big turn off. If a guy is too afraid to ask this, the best thing he can do is wear three condoms and get checked as soon as possible after contact as it is always better not to take risk.
- Do you think I’m hot?
Who does not want to look hot, however, guy can’t ask this without sounding unsure of himself and we all know that a man cannot handle being unsure in front of a woman.
- Have you ever done drugs?
It can either make or break your new relationship. Guys are afraid to ask this because this is one touchy question.
- Can we skip the condom?
Sex without condom is always more fun and gives more pleasure than sex with condom. Every guy wants to have sex without condom but is it really safe to ask this question to a girl as they are not aware if a girl is ready to take this risk for him. There are chances that she will hit you back for asking this question.
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