14 Struggles Of Giving Blow Job And How To Deal!

By- Jyoti Gupta

Although it is a pleasure to see your bae enjoying your act, the way it makes him feel when you touch his manhood and plays with it. But sometimes it is not fun giving him BJ. Here are struggles of giving blowjob and how to deal with it.

  1. Your jaw starts to hurt within a few minutes

He is enjoying what you are doing but your jaw starts to hurt but you cannot stop it there for that would be awkward. The tip here is to use your hands. Do the blow job with your hands and mouth to give him an interesting sensation.

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  1. It feels like it is taking forever

It would be just 10 minutes and you will feel like it is more than 40 minutes and it is going on and on and on. He might seem like he is about to come but nothing happens. The tip here is to slow down a bit. Change in pace will intensify the feeling and make him come.

  1. You are confused whether to tease him or go right away

You are confused if he will like if you tease him before going down or he just wants you to get started. The tip here is, it depends on the guy so you need to find out likes beforehand.

  1. The gag reflex sound

You are into the blow job and you feel like if he moves any further into your mouth you are going to start making retching sound. The tip here is to change your technique a little to lessen the pressure on the throat.

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  1. You feel like slobbering over him

You use your saliva to avoid giving the dry blowjob but you feel you are creating too much wetness. Slobbery works as lubrication before sex so it feels great. You can use flavored lube for oral sex go give your salivary gland a rest.

  1. Play with balls? Should you? Shouldn’t you?

You might be tempted to touch his balls and play with them but you got to ask him out. Be gentle, stroke them with the tips of your finger, give them soft kisses and tongue flick.

  1. You worry to play out sexy BJ tricks

You have read enough about how to spice up your BJ session by using hot water, ice cubes, and things. If you are not comfortable doing this, do not do this.

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  1. He comes in your mouth without asking

Giving blowjob does not mean that you are comfortable with his sperm in his mouth. You free to spit it instead of swallowing. You better have words about it and he should ask you before doing this.

  1. You are turned on but are not getting satisfaction

When you give him the blowjob and he wiggles and moans in pleasure, it could turn you on but you cannot stop until he come which means you have to put your satisfaction in the back seat. The tip here is that you can please yourself as well as you please him with a free hand or sit in a position which enables him to touch you when you do your job.

  1. You are turned off by his smell

You are down there and just hope he took shower because if he does not, he may smell gross. If you are comfortable talking with him, ask him to have a shower before BJ, so that you feel better going down on him.

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  1. He does not return the favor

It is unfair if you go down on him but he never does the same for you. Oral sex is sexy, amazing and naughty. You need to talk with him that too needs to return the favor if he wants to continue these blowjob sessions.

  1. Breathing issues

This is one big issue because you cannot breathe using your mouth since your mouth is already occupied. Practice to breath with your nose.

  1. To go deep throat

You are not in the circus and you cannot do everything, do not do this if you do not want to. You are no porn professional that it would be one easy task for you.

  1. Feeling like making crazy moaning sounds while he is coming

If you feel like moaning, moan else you need not copy porn star moans. Do not give yourself the pressure to be the porn star way.

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