11 Red Flags You Are In An Unhealthy Relationship!

By- Shreya Sharma

Every relationship has its ups and downs; while for some it is just a tough time, but for others, it could be a sign that things are not normal. There are major warning signs that show that your relationship is not running a smooth course and you should not avoid these multiple toxic signs that can damage you way beyond then you can think. Your man might be obsessed with the idea of having you in his life and they just cannot handle rejection and failure. Here are 11 red flags you are in an unhealthy relationship.

1. He tries to distance you from your friends and family

If you feel your relationship with your friends and family is being destroyed, then it is one big sign. The fewer people you will have in your life, the more you will depend on him which can be dangerous for you.

2. No security in relationship

One day you are the most in-love couple and the very next day you are fighting like cat and mouse, calling each other names. There is no stability in your relationship. Either you both share extreme good or extreme bad rapport. His unbalanced feelings might make you feel insecure.

3. You feel bad about yourself

This extreme behavior of your man will break you down mentally and you will start to question yourself. It will get you all confused, making you feel bad about yourself.

4. He does not pay attention to important matters

He does not take your feelings into consideration and he talks only when he wants to talk. When someone loves you, they will pay attention to you and the things that are important to you.

5. He want you to follow his ways only

For him, it is either his way or highway. If it is always you who is compromising and set your opinion aside, to agree with your partner because else he will be disappointed, then this is one big red flag.

6. You worry that he will be angry

You are always conscious of your actions because you worry that he will be angry and he will hurt you.

7. You cannot depend on him emotionally

You go to your partner when you are stressed out or to spill your soul, but he is unavailable. He never confides in you about his issues. You both need to be equally dependent on each other.

8. They try to control you

When things are going well, he will make you feel good, and this is so that you take him as your constant partner.

9. Double standards

For him, girls night out is a no, but boys night out is cool and you should accept him going out with his friends. He blames you for his mistakes.

10. He plays with your heart

He knows how to play with your heart so that you feel that you cannot live without him. You feel that no one else can love you the way he does.

11. He is slowly changing you

He will make you feel that this is what you want and this is the best for you. If you feel that you are no more the person you used to be. You need to be yourself; else you will be stressed and lost.