7 Things You Shouldn’t Change About You After Getting A Boyfriend!
By- Shreya Sharma
Being in a relationship and having a boyfriend is something really grand and worth celebrating, but it should not change the way you live your life. You do not change as a person when you get into a relationship. It is just that you have someone to love. You can kiss and cuddle someone whenever you want to. Keep in mind not to lose your identity when you have the boyfriend. The relationship is about growing, not losing you. Here are 7 things you should not change about you after getting a boyfriend.
You might not regularly see your friends, but you should still see them as much as possible. Personal space is important in a relationship. You both need your own life. Meet your friends and let him meet his friends.
Do not change your morals for a man. You will find someone who will agree with you and respects you enough to let you do things that you are comfortable with. Do not drink just because your man asks you do if you are against drinking.
How cocky you are
Do not let your boyfriend fool you into thinking that you are better because you are in a relationship with him. You are the same as your single friends and they are as valuable as you are.
The way you dress
Continue to dress the way you always do. Do not change your fashions sense. You need not dress provocatively to impress your man, or conservatively because your man is scared of other guys eyeing on you.
The level of being miserable
Your boyfriend should change your mood for better. If he is making you feel more miserable than you were when you were single, then it is time to end your relationship.
Just because you have a boyfriend that does not mean that you should forget about your goals, job, dreams and hopes. You can manage your relationship with other things that are important in your life. Do not change your life for a man. If he is the right one for you, he will adjust with your life goals.
How much you eat
If you boyfriend asks you to lose weight and leaves you because you do not look like what he wants you to look, then you are better off him. Date someone who cares for you genuinely and accepts you the way you are. You need not starve yourself to lose weight to make your boyfriend happy.