10 *Surprising* Signs You Are In BEST Relationship Ever!
By- Shreya Sharma
A relationship is based on trust, communication, and honesty. Your relationship will be healthy and happy if you know how to appreciate little efforts, how to channelize your anger, when to hold on and when to let go and how to make one another feel special. You become so comfortable with each other that you do not gross out even at the grossest of your partner’s habit. You are comfortable with their farts and burps and you do not mind picking their zits. Here are 10 surprising signs that you are in the best relationship ever.
You are okay not making decisions based on your needs and wants
You know that your decision to quit the job or travel the world will affect your partner and this does not frustrate you. You are actually excited that you are putting in efforts to be with someone who supports you, encourages you and wants to try new things together.
You feel more vulnerable now
And this is because you have someone who knows you and understands you more deeply than anyone else.
You are not obsessed with being right
Now, your relationship is more important to you than pride. You know it sucks to apologize, but when you know you have made the mistake and screwed up things, you do not mind apologizing because for you are the relationship is important than your ego.
Arguments do not horrify you anymore
You are so confident about your relationship, that you are not afraid to fight or argue. You know you can work on it in a healthy manner. You know fighting is not fun, but you have faith in your relationship and communication that you will work through the problem.
You take turns to be selfish
You know that you are in a loving and supportive relationship that it is okay to make the sacrifices for your partner. Your partner too sacrifices and compromises for your sake. There might be difficult situations, but you both know that you will make the decision based on the mutual respect, love, and compassion.
He kind of challenges you
Your man loves you for who you are. But he is the one who makes you want to be a better person every single day. He is the one who helps you to grow, to learn about yourself, and supports you and motivates you to become the person you always wanted to be.
You know you have changed
You finally realize that you are with someone who is making you familiar with the ideas that you have never experienced before, and you are doing the same for him. You are not pressurized to change yourself, but you are excited to see the sides of yourself that you did not even know existed.
You nor more put yourself first
You do not think of your life on the basis of what you want and what makes you happy. You now think as a team, you think about what is best for the two of you. You are confident that you are the independent individual, but you are okay that everything is not just about you. You work as a team to support each other and love each other.
You share his worries, stresses, and pains
You two are so connected that you both are there for each other in happy times as well as difficult times. You are affected by your partner’s wellbeing and happiness. You care and love your partner so much that their happiness becomes yours and their sorrows become your battles.
It is no more about ‘highs’
New relationships are full of highs; they are exciting, thrilling and addictive. But after experiencing the highs for long enough, you’ve come to learn that they simply aren’t sustainable. You are in a stage where you’re less affected by the ‘highs’ and more interested in the steadiness and commitment side of things. You’ve found someone you want to have ordinary days with, someone who makes you feel happy even when things are boring, or routine, or stressful.