7 Things You Should NEVER Tell Your Friends About Your Relationship!

By- Shreya Sharma

It is true that we want to share each and every detail with our friends. You should share your life with your friends and that it’s important to be able to vent to them about the things in your everyday life. Yet there are SOME things you should NOT tell your friends about your relationship. Read on to know about the things.

1. Intimate details

What happens in the bedroom should stay in the bedroom. Never let out your intimacy details to your friends. It’s not only bad if your partner gets to hear it from someone else, it’s just embarrassing. Don’t tell them about any kinks your partner has because from that point on, your friend will never be able to look them in the eye again.

2. Fight

Couples fight, it’s normal, but keep it between the two of you, you can’t trust your friends with the fights you have with your partner. Anything is better than letting your relationship be an open book to the world. It’s okay to tell your friends about your relationship, it’s even okay to tell them when you get into a fight. But never go into the specific details.

3. Their past relationship

Never discuss your partner’s past relationships with your friends; it will only lead to ridicule and negativity. Only you can make your partner trust you more and you hold that power in your hands as long as you stay quiet about their personal details with others. Your friend does not need to know that four years ago the person your with had his heart broken by so and so.

4. Money issues

It’s okay to talk to your friends about money problems of your own but it’s not okay to bring your significant other’s finances into that conversation. Not everyone is okay with you sharing their monetary problems. If your partner is going through some money issues, don’t go telling your friends about it.

5. Cheating

It is okay to tell your friends if your partner has cheated on you and you have dumped him. But never ever share this with your friends if you are trying to work it out. This will create a negative image of your partner. You may forgive them because you love them but your friends love you, and they won’t.

6. Comparing

Unless you want your friends to think negatively about your partner, don’t compare them to others in front of your friends. We all go through ups and downs in relationships; it doesn’t mean you run off crying to your Friends about how your ex was so much better. It hurts your partner when they get to know how badly you talk about them. Your friends will never be able to respect your partner.

7. Complaints

If you do complaining a little too often, your friends will start telling you to leave the person because they see how sad and miserable you are with them. Whatever problems you’re facing, talk to your partner about them and don’t go complaining to your friends.