13 Sweet Ways To Chase Your Crush Without Looking Too Desperate!
By- Shreya Sharma
The first of everything is special be it walking for the first time, or having the first crush or the first kiss. We have grown up with a notion that a guy should propose us first and they should be chasing us, which makes the idea of chasing our crush too bold for us. But, hey! We live in the 21st century and we are no less than boys in any field, so why to skip it. Chase your crush but do not act desperate and this will also ease some pressure from him. Here are 13 sweet ways to chase your crush without looking too desperate.
Do not lie
Do not pretend to be someone you are not. Be who you are. Be clear about your values and belief because else it will be hard to hold a false image for too long.
Guys like it when a girl is confident about their choices, desires, and decisions. But do not overdo it. Do not be the “I know it all” kind of girl.
Flirt a little
Step out of your comfort zone and flirt a little, drop subtle yet obvious hints but do not get overprotective and demanding at the same time.
Genuinely compliment him and he will love it because we all love compliments. Be real and genuine with your compliment and the things you like in him.
Play a little hard to get
You want him in your life, but do not act too desperate else he will run away from you and take you for granted. Do not be too available and act hard to get, but do not overdo it else you will look arrogant.
No multiple texts
Sure, you have the urge to be around him all the time or when he is not around, you would wish to text him, but control yourself else you will look clingy. Keep the conversation sweet, straightforward and flirty.
A little touchy feely
Play with his hair or slide your finger through his neck or give him a little massage when he is tired. This will catch your attention and it will turn him on.
Talk about your friends
Tease him a little by making him feel jealous. Talk about your male friends, your outing with them or make small comparisons. This might make him chase you to be the only guy in your life that is important to you.
Do not include him in all your plans
Make the plan with your other friends too. This will give him the message that you have a life besides him too and you love it. He will start to respect your space and friends.
Learn to say no
Sure, you want to please him and do not want to miss any opportunity to be with him. But learn to say no. If you say yes to everything, he will start to take you for granted. Take a stand and say no when you have to.
Do not talk about the future
When you are on a date, do not talk about the future as it will scare him. Keep the conversation light and fun to impress him and make him like you.
Do not get emotional often
Do not appear needy, cranky and over-emotional to him. They want a simple drama-less life and relationship. Share your personal emotional stuff with your best friend.
Know when to quit
It is okay to be passionate about someone and chase them. But if you get a negative response always, learn to stop the chase and draw a line. You will be together if you are meant to be.