15 Bedroom Habits Of EVERY Happy Couple!

By- Shreya Sharma

As couples pass their honeymoon phase life, they fall into the practice of a mundane bedroom life. There would be couples who have maintained a healthy, exciting bedroom life, but not everyone manages to bring the excitement. It is depressing to think that you will be following this mundane, boring bedroom routine every time you hit the bed. We have to look for ways to make our bedroom life fun and exciting. Here are 15 bedroom habits of the happy couple that can spice up your doomed bedroom life.

1. Always flirt with each other

You know how you used to be all flirty and lovey-dovey with one another in your honeymoon phase, and now it is all gone. You no more flirt, no more of those “I want you” looks, no more of teasing them or telling them how much you want to have him right now. There is nothing that gives you butterfly in your stomach. To keep up the spark alive, you have to flirt with them always, let them have the feel that even after so long, you still have the urge to jump in bed with them and rip their clothes off.

2. No clothes rule

This should be a must rule if you live together. If you live with other people, make it a bedroom rule. But this is sure to bring up excitement in your bedroom life. Initially, you may feel odd, but you will love to see your partner working bare clothes and how light enhances their curves. It will always keep the spark on.

3. Love to tease each other

Tease your partner in a way that makes him want to have you right now. And when they will know that they cannot have you right then, it will keep them focusing on you for as long as you want. Tell him how sexy they look, that you are not wearing underwear or cannot wait to see them late at night, are going to make him feel high and have you.

4. You want them even when you have them

Do not stop trying to get each other’s attention, to impress each other or make each other smile. Do the little things you know they will absolutely love. Put in the little extra effort for one another. It will make them feel that they are your one and only and it will make the passion last forever.

5. You want to be around each other all the time

You are always together and spend each and every night and waking moment together. You have separation anxiety if you have to go somewhere without them. Even just sitting together makes you feel that you both had an amazing time. And when you are not physically together, you keep the spark alive, using skype and calls, exchanging sexy pictures and dirty texts.    

6. You try new things

You understand the need to try and experiment new things in bed. You both experiment things outside your normal bedroom fun. You both not only make things new and exciting in bed but also make things fun and exciting outside bed. You always reward one another’s adventurous spirit.

7. Try to make each other feel sexy

Even on the sloppiest of day or the worst of hangovers, remember to make one another feel sexy. Fix every ailment of your partner by making them feel the sexiest of the person alive on the planet Earth. Understand their glance and be by his side forever.

8. Remember the past bedroom stories that are good

Remember your past stories in the bedroom or anywhere that you guys had sex. There is nothing wrong in storytelling or your own tell-tales of physical encounters while cuddling or having a glass of wine. Remember how kinky, passionate you two together can be and it is sure to reignite the fire in you both.

9. Be honest about your needs and desire

To have the best sex, it is important you honestly communicate your needs and desires. Talk about your fantasies and ask your partner his fantasies. Tell him what you like and want him to do to you and discuss all your antiques in bed. This is the best way to improve yours between the sheets game.

10. Nicknames for each other’s body parts

This is your unspoken hidden language and you can have the entire conversation over this, you understand one another’s flirtatious eye contact and smile. You have named each other’s various body parts and that is your secret. You can differentiate their desires and needs just from their mere touch.

11. Do not be threatened by your partner’s ex

When you love someone, you are bound to get jealous of the ones who touched, loved and held your partner as their own. You know that your partner belongs to you and you can fight over him with anyone, you know you need not to feel threatened by his ex. Have trust in yourself and your partner that only you can turn him on now and he does not wish to go anywhere else.

12. You both trust each other

No matter what kind of relationship you have and how much time you spend together, you know where you stand with each other. You never had a doubt about one another, or never thought whether you should trust the other person or not. You never played games with each other and never ever hide your feelings from each other. You never had a doubt on each other’s feelings.

13. You spend time in bed together

You look for every single chance when you can just curl up with your partner in bed. Whenever you are away you think of them times when you will be back together in the bed and spend time cuddling up together. It does not mean you have to be intimate always, it just means that you can cuddle up with no clothes on. The idea is that you are naked, touching, intimate and passionate in the most innocent way, which is sure to bring up the passion in you two.

14. Your sexy time is as important as your lazy time

When you are together since a long time, intimacy tends to put pressure on one or both of you. it may be that one of you feels that it is getting stale, or you are not having enough or just wish to try new things. Discuss what you want in to be if your partner wants to try new things and you are not comfortable, then say it and vice versa.

15. You are always touching one another

It does not matter if you are in private or in public, you just cannot resist your need to touch one another. It sometimes even leads to full-on intimacy. You just feel the overwhelming desire to pet each other’s arms, kiss their neck, rub their back; really anything will do. There’s something comforting in knowing that they are there by your side and they feel the same. You communicate through touch and always feel better within their reach.