21 Ways You Can Make Him Fall In Love With You!

By- Shreya Sharma

We all have someone in our life that we want to fall head over heels in love with us. Sometimes it is a challenge to even translate your feelings to this man. Cracking a guy’s love secret is not that hard. When we were teenagers, we all have made a lot many creepy stalker activities to get the guy fall in love with us that are still enough to put us in shame. Sure, you do not wish to be that creepy stalker now. Here are 21 ways you can make him fall in love with you.

1. Be you!!

You have to be your true authentic self if you want a guy to fall in love with you. You need not pretend to be someone else, because sooner or later he will get to know this, and it will worsen the conditions. It is important to be you so that he can love you for who you actually are. You need not act dumb or do things that you dislike.

2. Have mutual friends

When you have mutual friends, the chances of falling in love gets higher. You trust your friends. So if you friends say that you are one great girl, chances are that the guy will try to initiate things with you.

3. Do not get discouraged

It totally hurts when you share your feelings with the one you love and they reject it. But this does not mean that they do not feel anything for you. it could be that they are not genuinely interested in you or it could be that for some reasons he could not open up about his feelings. Do not lose hope on love, you will find love eventually.

4. Smile

Smiling increases your attractiveness to the opposite sex. A smile can make any guy fall in love. You need not fake it. Your smile should meet your eyes.

5. Take care of your appearance

It is not about makeup, you need to be clean and presentable always. Be confident about how you look, and it is a huge turn on for men.

6. Be kind

Men want a girl who is kind and nurturing. They are looking for a mother material. Show that you are kind and caring. Show your softer side to him.

7. Show interest in animals and children

Showing interest in animals and kids gives a man the idea that you are nurturing.  Women who own animals are taken as better partners, it shows that you have experience in taking care of someone else than yourself.

8. Act like him

You need not go overboard and start acting annoying and creepy. You have to do simple things like, start walking at the same pace as him. This shows that you two are in sync. And if you find him matching his pace to yours, then it is a great sign that shows that he is into you.

9. Warm drinks

Yes, they work. This is called priming when you go on coffee dates with the guy you like because it increases the attraction between you two. Getting something warm to drink when you are out you’re your crush, shows that you have a warmer personality.

10. Get close

This does not mean to hookup as you meet him. It means sit close to him when you two are together. It will show that you are interested and will also increase the connection between you two.

11. Create a balance

When looking for a partner, we all look for someone who has the qualities that we do not have. Create a balance between you and fill the void space. If he is shy and you are outgoing, it is going to be one great match.

12. Be adventurous

Sexual arousal and anxiety are highly related. Take him out of his comfort zone and go for some adventure that will spark his adrenaline.

13. Go for red

Men perceive women who wear red as sexy. We know that red is sexy. So, it is time you try red. This is one easy way to make him fall in love with you.

14. Keep some mystery

Men find a little mystery challenging. You wish to share everything with him but it is better you keep something to yourself. Let him be curious and interested to know more of you.

15. Patience

You need to be patient in life. Men take a lot of time before making big and serious decisions. If he is not responding the way you want him to, you need to be patient. If it is more than a year, it is better you back off now.

16. Stop being jealous

No guy wants their girlfriend to be clingy. If you want him to like you, it is better you stop being jealous. If he is talking with a girl, you need not give his those angry looks.

17. Let him take the lead

Let him make some efforts. If you keep on chasing him, he will not appreciate it. Instead, he will act pricy. So, let him chase you and he will definitely fall in love with you.

18. Be captivating

He needs to feel safe with you, so that he can open up about himself. When he opens up to you, he is on his way to fall for you.

19. Be confident

You need not play the card of victim or damsel in distress always. Confidence is sexy and guys love those girls who are confident enough. Love yourself first; you do not need a man to make you feel loved.

20. Trust worthy

When we look for someone to fall in love with, we want that person to be someone we can trust. Show your crush that you are trustworthy. If he does not trust you, he will be hesitant to open up with you always.

21. Independence

A guy wants a woman who looks like she doesn’t need him. Be an independent woman who does not need man for everything.