No Matter What I’ll Never Be The Girl Who Does These 12 Things!
By- Shreya Sharma
When you get out of the relationship, you actually understand the contagious nature of a relationship. Slowly and gradually you become comfortable with your single status and accept where you are. Your relationship status teaches you a lot many things that you should actually be grateful for. You should learn not to change yourself ever. Here are 12 things you should never do being a girl.
Changing for a guy
If your guy does not like you for the way you are, then he is not the right one for you. There are plenty of guys out there and you can find someone who will accept you the way you are. You need not pretend like someone who you are not, just to impress a guy. Your relationship will never work if you change yourself.
Losing yourself in relationship
We all have done this once in our life that we lost ourselves in the relationship so much that it becomes hard for us to find ourselves after the breakup. Never change yourself or be lost in a relationship so much. Do not lose the world you have created for yourself.
Ignore the red flags
We usually ignore the red flags or the signs that show us how doomed our relationship is. You got to trust your instinct when it tells you that the guy you like is immature to commit things and stand by your side.
Being desperate to get a nod from his friends and family
You need not be desperate to get a nod or approval from his friends and family. You need to do what you want to do. If his friends do not approve of you, it is their matter of concern. You cannot live your life on the basis of what others expect from you.
Being in a relationship just for the sake of it
You need not to date someone just because everyone around you is dating. If you do not feel that there is some connection with this guy and you would like to meet them, it is better to be single.
You cannot change a guy
You cannot change people, just the way you do not want to be changed. You got to accept the guy for who he is. If he is not interested in dating just one girl, it is up to them. You are not there in his life to make him a better person.
There are second chances
If a guy ill-treats you and comes back crying and apologizing, you are not obliged to still stay interested in him. If it was going to work, it would have worked in the first chance only.
Blaming people for mistakes
There are times when we act awkward in our relationship and you put the blame of your mistakes on the other person. Learn not to put the blame on other people all the time.
Dwell on the negative moments
Every relationship has negative times as well. And being single is never a negative feeling. Do not dwell on the negative moments and think about the negative stuff. Keep your head high and smile.
Being single is miserable
You need not be upset if you are single. Your life is still fun and worth living. Make the most of your life and enjoy being single.
Being in past
Sure we miss the people we had let go of in our past and think about how we could have managed things. You know, you cannot travel time. Do not live in the past because the best is yet to come.
Not taking control of your life
Do not crush your goals just to find the love of your life. you can love even while working on your dreams. Do not lose control over your life.