9 Sneaky Ways You Can Have Him To Ask You Out!

By- Shreya Sharma

You may like a lot of guys, but making them ask you out is hard. There are many ways to ask a guy out, but to ensure that he asks you out, do not act too obvious that he understands that you have a huge crush on him. Let him know that you are interested in him, but do not act like crazy until he starts reciprocating your feelings. if a guy realizes that you like him more than he likes you, he will just take it easy and what for you to make the first move or ask him out. Here are 9 sneaky ways you can have him to ask you out.

  1. Ask your friend to refer you both as a couple

When you are having a chat with the guy you like, ask your BFF to join you in the conversation along with your other friends. And then out of blow, let her comment in the group and say something like “do not these two make a cute couple?” This is sure to make people in the group laugh. No matter how he behaves or how embarrassed you act, the thought will stick in his head and do the work for you.


  1. Use a friend to tease him

Tell your friend to butt in the conversation the next time you have the conversation with the guy you like. Ask her to tell the guy that it is so obvious that he likes you, and ask him when he is going to build up the courage to ask you out? Ask her to make it seem like a joke, yet it should be a serious question. It is one straightforward and easy way, and if he likes you, he will use this opportunity to ask you out.

  1. Invite him to join you

If you have a weekend plan with your friends, bring up the subject when you are hanging out with him, and invite him to join you and your friends. Tell him it will be fun to hang out and explore new places together. It is nothing like a proposal, but still a step to make him like you.

  1. Weekend plans

Ask him about his weekend plans and when he tells you, fake happiness that you too love doing that. If he is not sure about his weekend plan, then tell him that you always wanted to try that. But this works only when you share common interests. If he is interested in you, he may invite you to join him on his weekend plan.


  1. Let him know your routine

During one of the conversations, let him know your routine like your evening plans after work, like the particular gym you hit or the café you visit. If he lives nearby, there are chances that he may look forward to spending time with you. If you let him know your routine, he may end up bumping into you on a regular basis.

  1. Fake sickness

When you are in a conversation with him or when you are out, pretend that you have a terrible headache or stomach cramps. He will offer to drop you home. Once he takes you home, invite him in, and change into your cute revealing pajamas and let him see how beautiful you look. Do not wear anything sexy else he will get your trap.

  1. Get him to drive you nearby

If you are stepping out of the office to run errands, try to bump into him on your way and ask him to come along with you or drive you nearby to help you out. After you are done with your work, ask him for coffee. Insist him and tell him this is the least you can do for helping you out. And once you are out there on a coffee date, show him your good traits.


  1. Let him that you are ready for relationship

Dropping a few hints about waiting to meet the one and flaunting your single status at the same time, he may eventually work his courage up to ask you out. Once you’ve warmed him up with lots of together time and happy conversations, if there’s ever a chance of being together, he should know that you’re available for him if he musters the courage to ask you out.

  1. Play the damsel in distress

Guys cannot help when a pretty girl asks them for help. Ask him for help. If he likes you back, he will use any excuse to be with you. After he is done helping you, thank him with a smile and reward him with a coffee or lunch.


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