9 Overwhelming Stages Of Saying I-Love-You…Very First Time!

By- Shreya Sharma

When you have the urge to say I love you, it is not just because you have been together or know each other from quite some time, it is because you feel that attraction, you share emotional and intellectual connect and all such other things. But true, saying I love you is one nervous, overwhelming stage. You go through a lot to finally say I Love you, from all those “should I-should not I” to “I l..love.. this movie”. Here are 9 overwhelming stages of saying I love you the very first time.

1. An idea

This is the time when you first suspect your feelings growing deep for a person rather than just a casual one. They are there on your brain and you do not even feel annoyed when their name flashes on your phone, instead it is a sense of calm.

2. Self-interrogation stage

Your question yourself that what you are feeling is really love or it is just a like kind of feeling? You are in an utter state of confusion.

3. Comparison

You compare your present with your past. You compare your past lover with your present lover. You compare the feelings if they are that same hard and deep or not. It helps you understand the current state of your heart’s feelings.

4. Understand your feelings

You understand that actually this person makes your heart beat faster and your soul happy. You understand that they are special and you are confident that you really love him.

5. Doubt stage

This is the stage when you doubt again, but this time not about your feelings but about his, if he feels the same or not. You feel what if you open your soul to someone who is judgmental.

6. Boosting your confidence

Now you are content and sure that they will not judge you, you know they are better than this. You know that they feel the same for you and will announce it to you soon.

7. Plan to say it out loud

You plan to make things special. You are nervous as hell making all the preparations. You worry about if things will go down well or will it look cheesy.

8. Anxiety

You are done with the preparations and we are anxious enough to act like a fool which we do not want to act like actually. You are anxious about how things will go and if things will be fine.

9. I Love You

You might be so much in love with the person that you will not be able to hold it any longer and you just blurt it out. Though it is one simple statement but it exhibits thousands of emotions.