12 Things He Doesn’t Pay Attention To At All… So Relax!
By- Shreya Sharma
We are born to think about others in our life. So it is obvious that we care about what our partner thinks about us. When we are with someone, we want everything to be perfect, our dress, hairstyle, our personality, the way we carry ourselves and everything. But we know that it is not possible to be perfect and he will point out our flaws, but he will love us even then. We make it hard for us by being too concerned about what they will like or not. Well, here are 12 things he does not pay attention to at all, so just relax.
Your makeup game
Makeup is important for a girl and we want to learn every different style so that we have a variety if makeup styles to choose from. There are women who do it for themselves and then there are women who do it to impress their man. But man love natural glow, they are not at all concerned about your makeup skills.
Your friend’s opinion about him
Your man is careless and he just does not want his group to get into his way. As long as you are by his side, your friend’s opinion does not matter to him. If your friends do not like your man, then it will only cause tension for you because you want them to gel around well. He will not worry about it.
Having common interest
You might look for the things you have in common with your man, but your man does not mind if he is different from you. He does not mind if you are an exact opposite of him. Having everything common will make your relationship boring because you will have nothing new to learn from each other.
Your weird and strange hobbies
If you have a weird and strange hobby, then do not worry that it will scare him off. It is your life and he is not at all worried about your weird habit as long as it does not interfere with his life. Express your weird hobbies and he will not judge you for that, he might even love your hobby.
The restaurant you choose
‘Where to eat’ is one big problem in the relationship. But guys do not care where you both end up eating as long as he gets to eat. The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, so all they want is to eat rather than stress about the restaurant.
Man does not want drama, so when they sense fight they run away from it. Guys care less about who is right and who is wrong in the fight. He just wants peace. If your guy believes he is the only one right, then he has some major ego issues.
Spending time with your friends
Men like it when you have a life of your own even after being in a relationship. He does not want you to be clingy. He will be happy if you spend time with your friends unless he wants you to be with him only. He wants his space and freedom, so have your life girl.
We all are insecure about our weight. We are too concerned about how people look at us in terms of weight. Do we look over-weighted? Am I too thin? And many such doubts and that is why we are concerned about how our man will think about our weight. You need to be confident about your body and weight. He will have thoughts about it, but he will not consider them to decide about the relationship.
Texting all time
Men prefer to talk over the call and hear your voice rather than texting. If a man is not texting you back, it could be because he does not like texting, not because he does not like you. Guys care less about texting; they are more interested in phone call sessions.
Talking all time
Sure, they want to talk over the phone rather than texting, but that does not mean that they want to talk all the day. They want their space once in a while and that has nothing to do with relationship. They do not prefer to have the communication all day and every day long.
Doing the deeds all day long
If you happen to lack some sexual desire and worry that he’s going to leave you or somehow get upset that you’re not giving it to him, then you need to sit back and remember it’s not a big deal because it’s not on his mind. The important thing here is communication because yes, men do like their sexy time.
Guys will never judge you if you ask them out or initiate things. Initiate things as it takes off some pressure from them. Do not fear, and make the first move whenever you feel like.