9 Sex Things You Should NEVER Be Embarrassed About!
By- Shreya Sharma
Talking about your sex life or vagina is hard. Your sex life is your own and you need not talk about it with anyone else. But, you should never be embarrassed to talk about the things that make you feel good. Sex is a natural act, it happens and there is nothing to be embarrassed about it. Boys can freely talk about sex, but if a girl talks about it, then she is ‘unladylike’. Girls are just as sexual as boys and there is nothing to be ashamed of. We can talk about what turns us on, how we masturbated or the new toy we bought. Here are 9 sex things you should never be embarrassed about.
Safe sex is important. True, buying condoms or pills can make you feel awkward, anxious and embarrassed. But it is important to have safe sex. Even if you feel hesitant, it is just for your safety.
Buying sex toys
You should be able to buy sex toys without feeling ashamed or embarrassed. It is hard but it is your life and you should do what pleases you.
Liquids leak out of your vagina and it is normal as long as it is not gray or yellow in color. It is normal and you should not be ashamed of it.
Kinks or fetish
You should talk about your weirdest fetishes as long as it is not illegal. Instead of being embarrassed, you should embrace your kinks.
Talking to your friends about sex
You should feel free and comfortable to talk about sex with your friends. It is important to be informed and discussing sex is a healthy conversation.
Not wanting to have sex
Sex should be your choice. You are not forced to have it just because everyone else is having sex. You can decide your own pace. It is completely your choice to have sex or not.
Guiding your partner with what you want
Sex should bring pleasure; if you are not enjoying it, you need to tell your partner. You should never feel bad for asking what you want. You should not feel selfish if you want to enjoy sex.
Going to the gynecologist
Going to gyno is scary but important. You should visit your gyno as soon as you turn 18 or become sexually active to ensure that everything is going smooth. Vaginal health is important.
No, getting tested for an STD makes you responsible. If you are sexually active, you should be getting tested to make sure you haven’t gotten anything weird going on down there.