15 Not-So-Romantic Things You Need To Accept In Your Romantic Relationship!
By- Shreya Sharma
After the honeymoon period and as you grow old in a relationship, romance usually goes on a toss and take a back seat. You get busy with your job and life, that you start to take your relationship for granted. You have fought over financial issues and monotony sets in. You will have arguments over each and everything. Here are 15 not-so-romantic things you need to accept in your romantic relationship.
You love him, but you also need to accept all his traits
If he does not like to go shopping, so not force him and let him have his space.
It is ok not to be physically attracted towards your partner every day.
You need to accept that passion will not be the same every day. You can snuggle up and sleep together on those days.
On bad days, you might feel hatred towards your partner
It is just like the days when because of annoyance we hate our parents, siblings, and friends.
The things which were once adorable may start to annoy you.
It is when you are in a bad mood. No only him, you will hate everything adorable.
You might even feel the urge to text your ex on bad days
It is impossible to get everything in one person, no one is perfect.
Once in a while, you both will lie about random things. Forget and move on
It is human nature to lie at times.
There will be days when you will think to leave your partner
There will be rough days when you will think how your ex or your office crush would have comforted you.
You will doubt if he is the right one for you
You need to understand that no one can keep you happy all the time.
Either of you will break some promises. Some promises do not last long.
You need to get over it.
You cannot avoid fights and disagreements
Your love life will become boring without fights and arguments.
You too will commit the same mistakes as other couples
You will commit your own mistakes. No relationship is perfect and flawless.
You need to be prepared for love and pain, happiness and agony.
These go hand-in-hand.
There will be variety of days
Some will be awesome, some great, some not-so-good, some bad and some horrible. You need to be together.
It requires more than love to hold things together
Some compromise, a lot of patience, perseverance, good understanding, and the will to be with one another despite odds, are few things that will take you through.
Bearing one another will not be as good as you thought.