15 Things To Talk About In Your HEALTHY Relationship!
By- Shreya Sharma
Every relationship passes through various stages and not every relationship is same. The stage of your relationship has a lot to do with what you talk with your partner. When we like someone, conversations come naturally, but still, there are few conversations that can make you relationship happy and healthy. The conversations you have should be fun and illuminating to make your relationship perfect. Here are 15 things to talk about in your healthy relationship.
Talk about each other’s daily life and activities as this will help you know each other well and stay in sync with each other.
TV shows and movies
These are perfect conversation makers. You can have the interesting conversation for hours with the fresh perspective.
Talk with your partner about the people you find attractive or about those trying to catch your attention. You might feel uncomfortable but it will bring you both close and eliminate insecurities.
Talk about your hobbies and interests with your partner. Tell him about the change in your hobby and interest and this way you both will understand each other’s likes and dislikes.
When you are comfortable in your relationship, you do not find it odd to sit next you partner without uttering a single word. You are comfortable with the silence and their presence.
Talk about your goals and aspirations so that you both can understand each other well and see if your goals and ideologies are in sync.
Talk about the places, you wish to spend your weekend together. Talk about the new restaurant in your town or the movie you want to see with your man or any other destination.
Talk about your friends, their relationship, about workplace, TV show, movie or any other thing. This way you both with understand each other’s friends and interests.
Talk about vacations, family, pet, hobbies, weekend plans, how much time you take to dress up, how long your partner spends playing games etc. Learn about your each other’s lifestyle and interests.
Discuss the ways you save money, invest money and spend money because monetary satisfaction is necessary for long term relationship.
Talking about past relationship is thrilling because we got to wait for the right time and we never know when the right time is. Holding facts for too long or revealing them too soon can damage your relationship.
Vacations are exciting, pleasuring, relaxing and something everyone looks forward to. It renews your life and love. Talk about your vacations and romantic getaways in advance and you both will feel happy and motivated.
Talk about your future plans, goals, and dreams in life. This way you will truly understand each other and what you both want from future together.
Intellectual and emotional conversations
In a perfect relationship, both partners must be able to predict each other’s thinking and behavior. Have intellectual conversations about life, the paths people choose, the hurdles both of you have overcome and mysterious forces that both of you believe in. When you grow emotionally and intellectually as a couple, both of you will come closer to each other, spiritually and intellectually.
Kids and family
Discuss family matters and the way you will deal with them. Talk about kids and how you want to grow them together and when you plan to have them. See, if you both have the same opinion about having kids.