15 Signs That You Are In Love With Yourself Instead Of A Person!

By- Shreya Sharma

We all look for love in our life. We have heard that to fall in love, we need to love ourselves first. But sometimes in that process, we fall so hard in love with ourselves that we do not feel the need to love someone else. We start working on our happiness rather than depending on others to bring happiness in our life. Here are 15 signs that you are in love with yourself instead of a person.

  1. You work on your passion

You know you can be passionate about other things besides a person. You have discovered your passion and you have started giving time to the things that ignite some fire within you. You feel more satisfied doing those things rather than romance.


  1. You are in sync with your wants and needs

Now you know what you want and need and desire for. You focus on your goals and the ways you can pursue them. You have discovered what you want from yourself, from the relationship and from the career. You have plans for future.

  1. You value the relationships you have

You know that romantic relationships are not the only things that fill your life with love and happiness. You invest your time in your family, friends and other relationships. You have learned to value people.

  1. You travel and explore selfishly

When you love your life, you want to live it to the fullest. You want to travel and explore new places and new food. You want to live your life the way you want. You chase the things that you want.


  1. You focus on other important things in life

You focus on your career, hobbies, future rather than a relationship. There is a healthy shift in your priorities.

  1. You spend time doing things rather than wishing them to happen

You do not like to waste your time. You do not want to live a mediocre life. You do things rather than waiting for them to happen on their own.

  1. You value other’s advice

You want to learn, to have experience and grow. You value the advice given to you by others and you want to support people who need you.


  1. You appreciate little things

The little things that you used to ignore earlier are now your central focus. They are an important part of your meaningful life.

  1. You strive for better

You live a life where you follow your goals, dreams, and purpose. You want to achieve more and love more. You know your potential and you try to develop that person.

  1. You feel fulfilled by the memories, experiences, and relationships you have

You do not look for a romantic relationship to feel complete. You feel complete because of the people you have, the memories you have and your experiences. Your happiness depends on little meaningful things.


  1. You spend your days out of your home

The world around you holds value to you. You like to step out of your house. You like to soak the beauty of the world.

  1. You pray and feel thankful for what you have

You pray for the blessing you have and rely on your faith to pull you through hard times. You know you will find love when the time is right.

  1. You do not feel sad for not being in a relationship

Being single is no longer negative feeling for you. You are not looking for a lover to fill in your life. Your happiness depends on your experience, passion, people in your life and yourself.


  1. You are happy with the person you are becoming

You value yourself and what you have overcome. Now you know the purpose of your life. You value how events have changed you. You are happy with the way you have grown.

  1. You love the ride of loving yourself

You still have days when you struggle to love yourself, but because your life has shifted from loving someone to loving your existence, you’ve learned to value your own heart and mind. You’ve learned that you are the only one who can determine your happiness.


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