11 Signs Your Relationship Is Moving Way Too Fast… Slow Down!
By- Shreya Sharma
The speed of your relationship plays an important role in the success or failure of your relationship. The slow and dull relationship can make things boring, while it can be intimating if your relationship is moving too fast. There is no pre-determined speed on which your relationship should move; it depends on various factors like your age, your experience, present situation, family background etc. Here are 11 signs your relationship is moving way too fast, you need to slow down.
Thinking about each other constantly
Being indulged in each other’s thoughts once in a while is great, but you cannot do it all time. If you constantly think about each other, then you need to control your thoughts especially if you have recently started dating.
Being in constant touch with each other
If you are constantly messaging and talking all the time, you are going a little over the board with your relationship. Once in a while is fine, but do not make it your lifestyle.
If you have over-the-top romantic plans which involve lots of time, intimacy or time together, then you need to control. Your level of romance should relate to the level of commitment. You have a time and place for special moments.
Talking about marriage
If you are in the early stage, it is a big no-no to talk about marriage. First, get to know each other better.
Placing your stuff in each other’s closet
If you are placing your toothbrush, paste, soaps and clothes in each other’s closet, then you are moving too fast. You need to discuss the speed of your relationship.
Introducing each other as BF or GF
If you just met, and introduce each other as BF or GF, then you need to slow down. You are moving way too fast.
You do not know about each other, but you feel love
To fall in love with someone, you need to know them first. If you love someone without actually knowing them, you need to slow down.
If you know too much
If anyone of you is sharing too much of information, then it can be a bad move. It can scare the other person away and they might think of you as a clingy person.
Being annoyed if the other person makes plans without you
You can include your partner when you want, but that does not mean that he should include you in all of his plans. If you get upset about this, you need to slow down. It is a sign that you are moving too fast.
If you just started dating and you partner knows everything about your financial situation, then you are moving too fast. It is normal to share your finance when things get serious between you two, but considering a joint account in the initial stage is a big no-no.
Having a Kama Sutra life
A new partner should slowly and steadily indulge into sex, building up trust and loving respect along the way. If you have indulged in sex, without even knowing each other better, then you are moving too fast.