15 Things Proves That He Really Cares About You!

By- Shreya Sharma

With the hookup culture taking a toll on all of us, it is quite difficult to understand if a person genuinely likes us and care for us or not. People have become mysterious in their way of showing care for someone. A guy whose actions seems to be like that he care for you, may actually not be worried about you, whereas someone who genuinely cares for you, would show it in a hidden, subtle manner. The good guys, who actually care, are facing the brunt of this manipulative care attitude of guys. Determining if a guy actually cares for you or is just playing off can be quite difficult. Here are 15 things that prove that he really cares about you.

1. He remembers the unimportant things as well

If the guy you are with takes care of little things, that even you do not realize are important to you, then he really cares for you. Remember the times he offered you his slice of pizza because he knows how much you love it.

2. He asks you for advice

Guys find it difficult to seek advice and try to handle things on their own. If your guy seeks your opinion and advice then, it means, he really cares for you and your opinion.

3. He introduce you to his family and friends

This is one big step for guys, to introduce you to the people who are most important to him. So, if he does introduce you to his friends and family, this means you too are important to him.

4. He listens to you carefully and offers advice

A lot of guys pretend to be engrossed and engaged in the conversation, while they are actually least interested in listening to what you are saying. To know if he cares, see if he gives you advice about what you are talking. If he gives you realistic solution to your problem, then he is genuinely listening to you. And this shows that he cares for you.

5. He gets excited about the things related to you

If he is excited about your new job, or your promotion, he genuinely cares for you. Your happiness has become his and this shows that he really cares for you.

6. He uses “we” to you two

“You” and “me” has been replaced by “we” in his conversations with you two. He has started taking you two as a unit and he vocalizes this thing clearly, this shows, he cares for you.

7. He cancels his plans to help you

There are times, we just cannot handle the stress and we break down or freak out or are just too disturbed. If during these times, your guy cancels all his plans just to see you and help you, then he really cares for you.

8. He makes efforts with your family and friends

He will make your friends and family important for him as well because he knows what value they hold in your life. If he plans a party to meet your friends and put in his efforts with your family, then he really cares about you.

9. He tries to solve the fight asap

You had a huge fight, and if he is trying to talk things out and come to a solution, then he really cares for you. He wants your relationship to sustain.

10. He does not lie, even if it hurts you

He is honest with you and will tell you the truth only, no matter how much it may hurt you. He cares for you and your relationship and does not lie about things because he knows it can hamper your relationship in long run.

11. He asks you about your day and actually pays attention to everything.

This is a kind of habit, but if asks you this question and genuinely pays attention to certain things, he truly cares.

12. He sacrifices his own happiness

He will do things that you like, even if he just dislikes doing that. He cares about you and thus sacrifices his happiness to make you happy with these little gestures.

13. He is very understanding

If he really cares about you, he will understand the reason for your reaction and answers. He will sit and talk with you until he gets to know what is bothering you.

14. He is not possessive

Possessive behavior does not show their care for you. If he really cares about you, he will understand that you need freedom. He will not hold you back and will have no issues with you going out and having fun.

15. He is not selfish in bedroom

If he is sweet outside the bedroom, and he does not care about you and your wants in the bedroom, he does not care about you. Sex is important in a relationship. It’s definitely a time to see just how much someone cares for you. If he works just as hard for you as you do for him, then he really cares.